When we google the phrase "how to be classy" 16 rules/steps appear on explaining how to better yourself to become a classier person...but these shouldn't be seen as rules or steps. They should be something of which you choose to live your life by. I know what you're thinking..."why are you taking advice from google?" right? Well, we've all turned to google at some point in our lives but the truth is, I wanted another opinion on what people define as being "classy". Surprisingly, I agree with most of what it said. Here are a few pointers for those of you looking to better yourselves:
Choose you're words: Of course the true meaning is deeper than just the "watch your language" aspect of it, you must also understand that listening is more important than speaking (Listening>Speaking) Wait until the person you are talking to is finished, do not correct them if they use improper grammar or slang (the idea of being classy is not about being a snobby know-it-all) and while you're choosing your words, choose your battles because not all of them are worth fighting. Also keep in mind, Gossip is hard to avoid in society today and many times it is the topic at dinner parties so know how to voice your opinion appropriately.
Be independent: To me this is the most important point. Its not that you have to break-up with your totally dreamy boyfriend this second in order to "find your independence" but learn how to do things on you're own. A classy lady should never be completely dependent on another. Not emotionally, not physically, not even financially. She should always be prepared incase she ever finds herself standing alone. If you happen to be the dependent gal, ease back into things by going out with your girlfriends (and by going out I don't mean to a club...unless its a country club...as in golf...not the line-dancing kind).
Define yourself with a clean and elegant look: Presentation is key, expense is not. Class has nothing to do with how much money you have, or don't have. It's about finding flattering clothing for you're body type and things that work for you. Dressing classy means knowing the appropriate amount of accessories to wear and the appropriate amount of skin to show with each specific outfit. Start adding key pieces to your wardrobe that you can pair with anything such as, a blazer or nude pumps (make sure these "key" items go with you current wardrobe, you don't want to buy things you won't be able to wear).
Be responsible: Enough said.
Be considerate: Everyone should be spoken to as equals so treat them with courtesy and respect whether it be Queen Elizabeth a CEO, a gas station attendant or family.
All 16 steps
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