A Lady is Always...

Thankful.

I thought this post fit perfectly considering it is Thanksgiving here in the states.

Besides always saying "thank you" a lady should never take things for granted; she should always take time to appreciate every aspect of her life. For me, this year has been a rollercoaster but I am so thankful for:

- My family and friends, of course, for making me smile and laugh.

- Gaining an entire new family (though my sister-in-law). I could not be happier with how close we have all become and I absolutely love them.

- Being able to experience life as a 23 year old. It might be hard to find my way at times but I cannot be happier I am still here.

- My two kitties Penny Lane and Tux. And my puppy Blackie.

- Love and that its constantly in my life.

It might not be "Thanksgiving" where you are but think about the important things in your life and be thankful for them.

A Lady Is Always...

Traveling.

You don't have to go to Europe to be "well travelled" but learn to travel in general. It's important to experience other ways of life and history, even if it is within your own country. See the world. It's so beautiful and has so much to offer!  

I am so lucky to have been able to see 13 amazing countries and I never knew traveling could have such an affect on me. There are so many beautiful cities and so far most of Europe has my heart. I think my family is worried I will just up and move thousands and thousands of miles away...and truth be told if I had the chance I probably would. I love it that much. 

Oh, and if you ever make it to Paris you must check out Collette and Merci. I am completely obsessed with the latter, I want to work there.

Here are a few pictures of my adventures across the pond:


I took this of my best friend in Ireland.



Our hotel in Ireland. The K Club.



Copenhagen, Denmark (Day).




Copenhagen, Denmark (10 pm)





Loved this. You can tell by my smile. 

 



One of my favorite pictures I took in Paris. So beautiful. 



Athens, Greece.





I took this in Paris. This picture hangs in my closet. 





Kodak moment of a father & daughter. Paris, France.





Outside Merci in Paris.



   

 



 

Another favorite. I'm in the middle.



A Lady is Always...

Classy. 

When we google the phrase "how to be classy" 16 rules/steps appear on explaining how to better yourself to become a classier person...but these shouldn't be seen as rules or steps. They should be something of which you choose to live your life by. I know what you're thinking..."why are you taking advice from google?" right? Well, we've all turned to google at some point in our lives but the truth is, I wanted another opinion on what people define as being "classy". Surprisingly, I agree with most of what it said. Here are a few pointers for those of you looking to better yourselves:


Choose you're words: Of course the true meaning is deeper than just the "watch your language" aspect of it, you must also understand that listening is more important than speaking (Listening>Speaking) Wait until the person you are talking to is finished, do not correct them if they use improper grammar or slang (the idea of being classy is not about being a snobby know-it-all) and while you're choosing your words, choose your battles because not all of them are worth fighting. Also keep in mind, Gossip is hard to avoid in society today and many times it is the topic at dinner parties so know how to voice your opinion appropriately. 

Be independent: To me this is the most important point. Its not that you have to break-up with your totally dreamy boyfriend this second in order to "find your independence" but learn how to do things on you're own. A classy lady should never be completely dependent on another. Not emotionally, not physically, not even financially. She should always be prepared incase she ever finds herself standing alone. If you happen to be the dependent gal, ease back into things by going out with your girlfriends (and by going out I don't mean to a club...unless its a country club...as in golf...not the line-dancing kind).

Define yourself with a clean and elegant look: Presentation is key, expense is not. Class has nothing to do with how much money you have, or don't have. It's about finding flattering clothing for you're body type and things that work for you. Dressing classy means knowing the appropriate amount of accessories to wear and the appropriate amount of skin to show with each specific outfit. Start adding key pieces to your wardrobe that you can pair with anything such as, a blazer or nude pumps (make sure these "key" items go with you current wardrobe, you don't want to buy things you won't be able to wear).


Be responsible: Enough said.

Be considerate: Everyone should be spoken to as equals so treat them with courtesy and respect whether it be Queen Elizabeth a CEO, a gas station attendant or family.

All 16 steps